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Parallel parenting may prove more conducive after divorce

When a marriage ends, feelings of anger may linger for quite some time. In this type of environment, co-parenting may seem impossible for the foreseeable future. 

Is it wrong to forego the traditional co-parenting model when a relationship between exes is contentious? Our professionals have found that there are times when a parallel parenting model may work better after divorce. Discover what this approach entails and decide if it may work for you. 

Keeps conflict out of the picture 

If a couple fought over everything during the marriage, a divorce may not stop it. Co-parenting in the traditional sense may not work between the parties. The typical structure of a post-divorce parenting situation requires the parties to communicate and agree on things like: 

  • Educational decisions 
  • Medical choices 
  • Religious matters 
  • Extracurricular activities 
  • Scheduling conflicts 

However, if the parties cannot talk, it may help to refrain from in-person and telephonic conversation. Digital communication, such as email, text messages and online calendar apps, may help diffuse tension and decrease the risk of fighting. If this does not work, then a third-party may act as a go-between to settle issues. However, a child should never serve in this role. 

Helps children adapt quicker 

Taking the verbal fighting out of the equation helps reduce stress on parents and children alike. When the arrangement is brand new, having parents on the same page allows children to adapt quicker. In conflicting relationships, the parents should document all guidelines for how they plan to raise the children. Having this will help bypass communication in any form unless it is crucial to the children. 

A parallel parenting plan involves more negotiation at the divorce table to get a fully structured parenting plan, but it may prove invaluable going forward. Follow us here to gain more insight into family law issues in Florida. 

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